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  • Prayer for Making Amends

    A few weeks ago, Spirit shared a message during one of my daily messages about making amends. (You can see the full video here.) This morning, I decided to go back and listen to it again and write out the prayer that came through because I loved it so much! 

    I have been thinking about healing a lot lately. I have been thinking about how healing is never linear, how it is full of layers and spirals, how it has bumpy starts and stops; and I have been thinking about how messy it can be. Healing is messy. Self discovery is messy. Travel is messy. Growth is messy. Child birth is far from pristine. The process of nourishing our bodies and digesting our food, no matter how healthy and aligned with our needs our meal choices are always creates a mess, both in the preparation stage and release.

    Life is messy, and messy doesn’t always mean bad. Sometimes messy moments create nutrients for future and current life. Sometimes the messiness is divinely inspired. It is the magic of our soul twirling us around in circles until we no longer know which way is up leaving us with no choice other than to listen to our own internal compass and reorient ourselves. But sometimes in our messiness we cause harm. In trying to find our voice we take away the voice of others. In an effort to provide ourselves with safety, we steal it from others. These actions take place when we are aligned with fear, separation, and ego and they begin to tear at the interconnectivity of life. As we heal we eventually get to a place where we can see our actions for what they were, moments where we were thrashing away in the darkness, fearful that we were going to drown in the noise and confusion. When we reach this point we must make amends. We must restore balance. We must mend the tears. And we can do this with intention and focus. 

    There will be times in your life where you can make amends face-to- face, and say directly to a person. “I was a mess. I was blinded to how my actions affected anyone outside myself. I was not moving in Love in those moments. I was moving in fear and causing chaos and pain. I hurt you. You deserved better. You deserve better, and I will do my part to restore you to  your beautiful and brilliant self. I will help you heal.”

    But in some cases, the best thing we can do is remain afar and acknowledge that the pain we caused was too great for us to help directly in the healing process. And that’s okay. We can still intentionally send the Divine Energy we carry to mend those hearts and realities. That’s what this prayer is for. 

    Thanks for letting me share. 

    Love and Light, Brandi

    Dear Universe,

    As I step closer into my Divine Being, I am seeing the ways that I was separated from my True Self. I am seeing how I was separated from the Flow of Love, and in this moment I ask for you to give back any thing I inadvertently or purposefully took away from [insert name(s) here]. 

    Please give them back their power; please give them back their sense of safety; please give them back their sense of stability that I wrongfully took away. Allow this energy to resonate with them and heal within them. 

    Please give this back to them in the best way that you see fit. 

    Amen.

  • A Whole Bunch of Messages! Which One is Trying to Reach You?

    It has been a long time since my last post giving you a chance to play with your own intuition. So here we go! If you don’t know how this posts work, you can learn all about it by checking out my first intuition post here.

    This time around we have a back log of messages to choose from. I have included my most recent messages and 2 extra just for fun.

    If you want to peruse through all the messages that I have recorded over the past few months make sure to check out and subscribe to my Youtube channel.

    Thanks for playing along and getting more familiar with the way that your higher self and Love Energy works with your waking mind.

    Love and Light, Brandi

  • Happy Pride Month!

    Happy Pride Month!

    Hello Beautiful People-

    I definitely owe you all “Which Message Wants to Find You” post. Stay tuned!

    But today I wanted to wish everyone a Happy Pride Month. As a cis, more-or-less straight ally, I like to stay in the background for festivities and celebrations. I like to watch the LGBTQIA+ community around me claim the spotlight and celebrate their wholeness and their truth. But I also, think it is important to acknowledge how much I, and other allies, have been gifted and supported by the queer community.

    I have learned so much from my non-straight, non-cis friends, and even queer artists and performers I have never met. They have helped me feel seen and supported at some of my lowest moments, and most importantly they helped me to understand and OWN the fact that I know myself better than the outside world. They taught me not to run away from who I am. As they showed up fully in the world, refusing to hide parts of themselves, I found the courage to do the same. They taught me how to love my true self and to accept my gifts of spirit. It is because of their example that I am here doing the work that I am doing today. So, from the bottom of my heart thank you to every person showing the world what it looks like to love your self and be moved by your soul! You opened up the world for me. You helped me to breathe.

    And I swear it wasn’t planned, but in today’s Daily Message Love Energy gave a shout out to Pride Month too! I wanted to share it with all of you. Please pass it along.

    Love, Brandi

  • Message for May 17-May 23: Which One Wants to Reach You?

    Hello Beautiful People-

    I am excited to share a new week’s worth of daily messages with you. This fun weekly format allow you to work with your own inner knowing and connection to Spirit as you find your way to the message is that is most meant for you this week.

    If this is your first time playing along. Click on the picture that your higher self is guiding you towards. You can find directions on how to tune in with your higher self and your Spirit team by checking out the first weekly messages post here.

    Have fun, and let me know how it goes! I would love to hear about the journey Spirit and your higher self is taking you on this week.

    If you want to peruse through all the messages that I have recorded in the past month make sure to check out and subscribe to my Youtube channel.

    Love, Brandi

  • Weekly Messages for May 10 – May 16: Which One Wants to Reach You?

    Hello Beautiful People-

    I am excited to share a new week’s worth of daily messages with you. This fun weekly format allow you to work with your own inner knowing and connection to Spirit as you find your way to the message is that is most meant for you this week.

    If this is your first time playing along. Click on the picture that your higher self is guiding you towards. You can find directions on how to tune in with your higher self and your Spirit team by checking out the first weekly messages post here.

    Have fun, and let me know how it goes! I would love to hear about the journey Spirit and your higher self is taking you on this week.

    Wishing you the brightest and best, Brandi

  • Weekly Message for May 3- May 9th: Which One Wants to Reach You?

    Weekly Message for May 3- May 9th: Which One Wants to Reach You?

    Hello Beautiful People-

    I am once again excited to share week’s messages with you in this fun and interactive way. Each week I have been creating a post like this to give you a chance to work with your inner own inner Higher Self and connection to Spirit by finding your way to the message that has been trying to reach you this week. If this is your first time jumping in, you can find directions on how this all works below.

    But before you get started….

    I want to share something with you. As I was listening to the messages this week, I realized that Spirit is has started to do something really exciting and very cool! Love Energy has started breaking down big concepts, ideas, and guidance into smaller segments across multiple days. It was really exciting for me when I saw what was happening! And I want to make sure you get a chance to catch it too.

    After you listen to the message calling out specifically to YOU this week, I highly recommend watching one of the messages from last week, “Vision Boards 2.0” and one from this week, “Wondering vs. Wandering” back to back. See if you notice the magic I have been witnessing on my end!

    If you want to see how this continues to unfold you can subscribe to my YouTube channel by clicking here.

    Now, on to the part where you get to play and connect with your own higher self.

    Here is how it works:

    Below are random pictures, and each picture is linked to one of the messages from this week. Find the one that is calling you and then click on it to receive the message that most wants to reach you. 

    If you don’t know how to determine which one is calling to you. Here are some tips to connect to your higher self: the part of you that knows exactly what you need to hear.  

    • Close your eyes and take a deep breath. Feel yourself in your body. 
    • Picture Mother Earth embracing you with a big energetic hug. Feel yourself sinking into the space. Recognize that you are here and present in this time and space. You exist! In this moment you know it and feel its true. 
    • Next, picture yourself settled into the space and breathe again. Deeply. 
    • As you breathe in and picture yourself breathing in Love and golden white light. 
    • Do this until you feel solid and confident that you are connected to the flow of Love energy. 
    • Next, ask your higher self, the part of you that is aware of your own divinity and knows exactly what you are here in this lifetime to do, see, be and explore, ask them to guide you to the message that is meant for you. 
    • You may feel your hand automatically move to one of the pictures. You may hear a voice tell you which photo to pick. You may just somehow know which one to go for. 
    • Then simply click and see what message is waiting for you this week. 

    Enjoy working with your own knowing! 

    Love,

    Brandi

  • Weekly Messages for April 26 -May 2: Which One Wants to Reach You?

    This is the second week of me posting daily messages on social media and YouTube! And this blog post brings all of those messages together in one place. But rather than just providing a bunch of links to videos you can find on your own, I have set this post up to be a space of play and whimsy where YOU can work on your intuition and connection to Love energy. 

    Here is how it works:

    Below are random pictures, and each picture is linked to one of the messages from this week. Find the one that is calling you and then click on it to receive the message that most wants to reach you. 

    If you don’t know how to determine which one is calling to you. Here are some tips to connect to your higher self: the part of you that knows exactly what you need to hear.  

    • Close your eyes and take a deep breath. Feel yourself in your body. 
    • Picture Mother Earth embracing you with a big energetic hug. Feel yourself sinking into the space. Recognize that you are here and present in this time and space. You exist! In this moment you know it and feel its true. 
    • Next, picture yourself settled into the space and breathe again. Deeply. 
    • As you breathe in and picture yourself breathing in Love and golden white light. 
    • Do this until you feel solid and confident that you are connected to the flow of Love energy. 
    • Next, ask your higher self, the part of you that is aware of your own divinity and knows exactly what you are here in this lifetime to do, see, be and explore, ask them to guide you to the message that is meant for you. 
    • You may feel your hand automatically move to one of the pictures. You may hear a voice tell you which photo to pick. You may just somehow know which one to go for. 
    • Then simply click and see what message is waiting for you this week. 

    Enjoy working with your own knowing! 

    After you get a chance to listen to the message that you are being led to, you can check out all of the messages from the week if you are interested. Make sure you enter your email below and hit subscribe to get a recap of the message sent to you each week. 

    Thanks for joining me on this journey.  Wishing you all the brightest and best!

    Love,

    Brandi

  • Weekly Messages April 19 -25: Which One Wants to Reach You?

    Hello Beautiful People-

    I am excited to start a new weekly project! Each Saturday, it will be my goal to create a blog post featuring the daily spirit message I have been posting to social media over the past week. This will give folks who didn’t catch them on their feeds a chance to check them out on YouTube. 

    However, because the world needs more play, and whimsy, AND more people working with their intuition and their own connection to Love Energy. I am going to make these posts into a fun game so that YOU can connect with your own higher self and intuition.

    This is how it will work:

    Each week, I will put random pictures in a post like this. Each picture will randomly be linked with one of the messages from the previous week. When you pop in to check out the post, you will get a chance to ground yourself, touch in with your higher self and ask to be guided to the message meant for you. Then after you get a chance to listen to it, you can check out all of the messages from the week if you feel moved to.

    Below are the pictures and the links for this week. If you haven’t had much practice connecting your higher self here are some tips to get started. 

    • Close your eyes and take a deep breath. Feel yourself in your body. 
    • Picture Mother Earth embracing you with an energetic hug. Feel yourself sinking into the space. Recognize that you are here and present in this time and space. You exist! In this moment you know it and feel its true. 
    • Next, picture yourself settled into the space and breathe again. Deeply. 
    • As you breathe in picture yourself breathing in Love and golden white light. 
    • Do this until you feel solid and confident that you are connected to the flow of Love energy. 
    • Ask your higher self- the part of you that is aware of your own divinity and knows exactly what you are here in this lifetime to do, see, be, and explore- ask them to guide you to the message that is meant for you. 
    • You may feel your hand automatically move to one of the pictures. You may hear a voice tell you which photo to pick. You may just somehow know which one to go for. 
    • Then simply click on the image and see what message is waiting for you this week. 

    Enjoy working with your own knowing! And make sure you hit the subscribe button on this website to get a recap of the message sent to you each week. 

    Thanks for joining me on this journey. I can’t wait to see what happens next as we begin to build community and hope in this very special space. 

    Wishing you all the brightest and best!

    Love, Brandi

  • New YouTube Video Up w/ a Message on Hope

    What is bringing you hope this Spring?

  • New Episode Has Guided Meditation!

    I took February Recess off this year along with the rest of the team at work which gave me just enough time to put together a new podcast episode! I am excited about this one because I have chosen to include a guided mediation for the first time. I am eager to hear about listeners experiences and what they bring back. Leave comments below and let me know!

    The damselfly reminds us that our emotional healing is not something to run away from. It is in the mud and muck that we are able to release old stories that are holding us back. It’s where we discover that those hard emotions of heartache, sorrow, and confusion can be used to build a bedrock of awareness and knowing. Those hard emotions don’t have to remain part of us. We can release them and let them be trustworthy and beautiful launching pad. Even the hardest emotions are full of love. They are worthy, important and part of the journey.

    In this episode I talk about a dream I had about a cyclone of damselflies that led to to a great podcast called Living Myth with Micheal Meade. The episode I mentioned was Episode 361- The Stream of Knowledge. That episode is now in the archives, but I really recommend any of the episodes that are for free on most podcast platforms, YouTube, and his website. Check out his latest below.

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